Hello ma blogsville family......Happy new month to you all!
I have been quite busy that I havnt bein able to come over here for a post but as God wud hav it,I'm here again with one of ma old notes to share....Bcos seriously,I start exams 2mrw and I knw most of you wudnt understand ma Bch vocabs..
Nwys,bck to d'koko.so,I was jisting with a frnd of mine about some girl that got marryd recently to a guy old enough to be her dad and the only reason why most girls are okay with it is bcos the guy works overseas.....so it sorta reminded me about this note and I thot I should share.......Enjoy!
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Nov 13th,2006.
Wahala dey o!
I’m really surprised at the level to which money is now a serious criteria for “Mr right”……….I mean ok,you would need a reasonable amout to start off and maintain your home but that doesn’t mean that you have to state your account balance to get one!
Recently,a lot of developments have left me shocked. I mean whats it with the word, “rich”? Girls seem to no more care about their relationship with the guy or how he treats/takes them for as long as the money is there,that’s it! They can take whatever bullshit he throws at them,cos they find solitude in the money available………..
I mean OMG! I aint mo relationship expert but I know that there comes a time that nothing,not even the money can substitute the crave for attention and care that comes only if love is the bedrock of that relationship………….
Usually as the observant I realize that the most interesting part of this whole concept is that even in a case where the money is just a plus,the guys don’t seem to see it that way, thereby introducing the word, “gold-digger”……I mean,as humans we always try to comfort ourselves with the thot that we are not and can never be the same……..we bring in barriers like the social hierarchy just so we can belong to a particular social class…
The gold-digger is therefore understood as some1 only after a life of comfort and luxury……..but there is no thot more comforting like knowing that some1, somewhr is looking out for you and making sure that there’s a smile on your face!!!
I'm outta here......I promise to have ma blog rounds once exams relax....
xxx!
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The very best in your exams-- blast all the phenylalanine-di-tri-trypto... God is your muscle.
Now, this topic is so interesting to me, esp. as I was jus thinking about men and money this evening. Excerpts as follows: 'who wants to suffer with Mr. Broke? Why is it a pitiful/scornful thing for a lady to make "moneyed man" a big priority? Do we criticize guys (much) when they make female looks a priority? But then again some of us are too into the rich man thing. Why should I allow myself to be beaten up or given a daily dose of verbal/emo. abuse just becuz he has money?' Then I concluded, 'me duniya?'
Do well in your papers ko. The very best.
Best wishes on your exams!!
Woman are created to want stability and we desire to be provided for and taken care of so it's expected. However, that doesn't mean that a woman's sole existence should be based on what a man can do for her financially. So much so that she will put up with anything or whore herself around for financial gain.
Nowadays sef men be talking about they don't want a liability...they want a working class woman too...lol
Anyways dear, study hard but try and get some rest too.
success i ur exams....
dont mind those girls, its pple like that, that make divorce rate high
All the best in your exam, study well ooo.
As for money and marriage, they do go hand in hand but not to the extreme. Gold digging was a theme in my first novel.
@ Cider,thanks a lot sweety.....those lecturers wud surely see my back..
And I love those thots of yours.thanks for sharing!
@ Rep1, thanks for the wishes,ma dear.....
I hear the working class jist now and again as well......
@ BBB, thanks,sweety!
Exactly ma point..
@ Myne whitman,it was...........oh,I gas to get that novel then,pppppppppllllllllllleaseeeeeeeeee!
thanks for stopn by!
hope your exams went fine. when are you going to get rid of your word verification cuz i hate it. i wrote something about the young girls and marriage marriage marriage talks. i feel some girls have been brain washed to think marriage is the essence of their being.
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